Our female members are looking for adventurous fun-loving males. Your profile needs to project these qualities and the first step in doing so is to ensure you are providing the best possible photos of yourself.
Upload the best possible photo of yourself. Its always better to take a new photo specifically for the purpose of including in your casual sex dating profile rather than searching out and using existing ones. If the photo doesn’t match up to the real you, your casual sex dating experiences are most likely to be embarrassing disasters, so never use photos that are portraying a younger you.
Facial portraits or full standing poses are usually the most effective for males. But whatever you do, avoid using one of those tacky, genital close up shots that some guys seem to think will attract women – they don’t.
Put a lot of effort into creating a good profile headline. Second only to your photo, it’s the profile headline that will attract attention from hot sex contacts. Keep it reasonably short and to the point. Summarise your most compelling features and broadly what you are looking for.
Here's an example of a good one:
Sexy, adventurous guy with great sense of humour seeking hot sex contacts for adult fun.
And here's how NOT to do it:
50s Divorced male, average looks and build. New to all this. Looking for attractive, younger sexy females for threesomes etc.
Must be up for it. No time-wasters please
The main description following your headline needs to continue to project self-confidence and positive attributes whilst avoiding the following things:
References to past relationships in your profile are at best going to bore the reader and will most likely create negative assumptions about you.
RantingDon’t rant on about the things you hate or things that you feel are wrong.
VaguenessAt best a vague profile description bores the reader but it can also make them believe that the writer is hiding something.
Being a Sexual BraggartAvoid turning your casual dating profile description into a list of all your sexual exploits.