Knowing how to flirt and learning the art of seduction might seem to some people as being unnecessary skills to apply at sex orgies, adult parties or during the course of adult dating. If you have never attended an adult party or used online adult dating sites, you might not have realised that seduction techniques and flirting skills come into play just as much as they do in mainstream dating.
Approaching someone you fancy at an adult party, and getting them to join you in some adult fun requires the same sort of flirting and seduction skills that you would need in any other dating situation. Just because a female is liberated enough to enjoy the swinger lifestyle, doesn't mean she is going to say yes to every guy she meets at an adult party.
The same goes for adult dating. Firstly there's the online part of it; getting someone to agree to meet up. Then, if that's done successfully, there is the actual date itself. Although both stages are carried out within the uniquely permissive boundaries of adult dating, their goals are unlikely to be achieved unless you have and use seduction and flirting skills that make women feel attracted towards you.